satisfaction

being satisfied with what we already have is a magical golden key to being alive in a full, unrestricted, and inspired way. one of the major obstacles to what is traditionally called enlightenment is
resentment,
feeling cheated,
holding a grudge about who you are,
where you are,
what you are.

this is why we talk so much about making friends with ourselves, because, for some reason or other, we don't feel that kind of satisfaction in a full and complete way.

meditation is a process of lightening up, of trusting the basic goodness of what we have and who we are, and of realizing that any wisdom that exists, exists in what we already have.

our wisdom is all mixed up with what we call our neurosis.

our brilliance, our juiciness, our spiciness, is all mixed up with our craziness and our confusion, and therefore it doesn't do any good to try to get rid of our so-called negative aspects, because in that process we also get rid of our basic wonderfulness.

we can lead our life so as to become more awake to who we are and what we're doing rather than trying to improve or change or get rid of who we are and what we're doing.

— pema chodron, from the wisdom of no escape